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8 Ways To Build Confidence

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Don’t you believe in yourself? Do you check your self again and again in the mirror and yet not satisfied with your looks? Do you have a phobia of speaking in front of people? Or you often start shaking while giving a presentation or interview? Do you think that you are not pretty enough? Successful enough? Do You think of yourself as inferior? Do You think your clothes don’t look perfect on you? If the answer is YES! Then you don’t have any of the above problems you just lack confidence. In today’s world, there is one thing which is more important than your skill and that is “Confidence”. No matter how much your reasons are strong or you have polished skills, but if you lack confidence level; believe me, you are just dumb! And no one will be interested in what you want to say. And sometime even your weak logics could be covered by your confidence. Confidence is not something you can touch but it’s an energy that is radiating by your body language and affects others. A positive attitud
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Stop Racism and Intolerance!

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Have you ever thought that why this world is beautiful? It’s because of the diversity. We see different people who have different norms, cultures, religions, ethnicities. And this change makes them beautiful. Without diversity, this world will be a boring place. But this diversity comes at a great price. The Human being is intolerant. They want others to follow them. So many wars are seen in history just due to these conflicts. In the modern era, people try to solve these conflicts by negotiation but there is still a lot of work to do. Intolerant and racist behaviors are not just confined to one society. They are everywhere around the world. People kill each other just because of little religious or ethnic conflicts. Even the 1st world countries could not solve these problems. We have the consequences of such a case in the form of the George Floyd case in the US. Police killed a man just because his skin color was black and even he is a criminal then he should deserve medical support w
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Upbringing of a Pakistani girl - Realities

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  Pakistan is ranked 151 in global gender gap out of 153 countries. So here the typical discussion of a patriotic society ends; that they give proper respect and rights of women. The rights of a women are most neglected thing in our society. No one want to talk about it. When a woman herself talk about her rights she is tagged with different names. Women faced unequal behaviour in all the aspects of society. In Pakistan minimum 90% of women even don't know about her rights. She takes it as the custom and norm of culture but she should be aware that human rights are important than any culture, norm and customs. The main question is that; why women didn't raise voice for her freedom? The answer it is their upbringing. Submissive behaviour is something like a default setting in our systems. Growing as a girl we are told that you should be delicate, fragile and you should never raise your voice in front of male family member. People gift her soft delicate dolls and little household
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Julie - A Tale Of Dead Society

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  Once there was a human who belonged to a different gender orientation from a dead society. She was told that she is useless and a lesser human just because of her sexual orientation. Her mistake was that, unfortunately she born in that dark culture and that culture does not accept her. Her own parents abandoned her. She was not given the chance of education and job. Boldness and bravery was her traits. So, when she grew up she stand against the law of that dark forest and started fighting for herself and her tribe. Yes, you are right her name was Julie a transgender. In Pakistan transgenders are the most deprived part of society. They are not given their basic rights. There is not education and jobs for them. For there bread and butter they dance is wedding and streets. A huge amount of them are in sex slavery. So, they are living their lives under the line of poverty and full of miseries. Some year back there gender was not included in national identity cards. Julie started her acti
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Attabad lake - A ticking bomb

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                                                 Attabad  lake is one of most beautiful lack in Pakistan. It is a well-known tourist attraction of  northern areas. The lake emerges as a result of disaster which happened on 4 th January, 2010  by the landsliding  on Hunza river; slide blocked Hunza river and formed a beautiful lack. Most of the people were evacuated before the occurrence but 20 deaths were reported and about 5 villages  destroyed. Attabad lake now a day is the source of generating revenue from tourism and it is the source of bread  and butter for families but for the government it is also a ticking bomb. The geological surveys and  environmental reports says the it is a possibility that the way this lake formed by landslide it can again  change its shape due to same reasons. It contains great amount of water from river of Hunza and also the water from melting glaciers so if the landslide  again occur it will be a great disaster because more than 20 villages will be unde
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Literature is the true representative

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  Literature is the essence of social morals and norms. it reflects the culture of a society in every perspective no mater good or bad because reflecting the immoral action it helps the society realise that on which areas they have to concentrate and put their energies. If you want to learn the behaviour of a society then you can take help from their literature. Literature is the soul and it depict our every action and the way of our thinking, our ideas and how we see life as. So we can say that literature is the mirror of a society. We will find diverse literature around the world and actually it is diversity which make the world beautiful. If you chose an American or Europe’s latest literature you will find a very important thing which is “consent” but at the same time African deprived countries lack this thing. If we find the books of the dark ages, we will really feel illness in them and also find the glimpse of passion for freedom. In a novel “kite runner” I feel the situation o
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GENDER AND CONFLICTING VALUES IN PAKISTAN

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The socially constructed characteristics of women and man refer to genders such as norms, values, roles and relationships of and between groups of women and man. But here I also want to mention transgender because there are three genders. It varies from society to society and can be changed and developed. Pakistan is a male dominant country which results mostly to cause the less opportunities and authority of decision making for women and transgender. There are a lot of changed values and norms that varies from society to society although it is a Muslim country but still the norms and ethical values differ a lot There are two main objectives for genders. First objective seeks to identify categories and expend dialogue on gender oriented issues as, the chronic issues and emerging issues. These issues extensively relied on existing literature on gender, which takes into account the problems of gender inequality in Pakistan. Secondly the country gender profile aims at enhancing understa
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